2009年10月29日星期四

Getting old or growing up?

We know we're getting old when the only thing we want for our birthday is not to be reminded of it. - Author unknown

To me birthday was just like any other day, and I’ve never been eager to celebrate it. It was always my daughter who reminded me of the date. But when it comes to our friends’ birthday, I like to celebrate it for them giving my best wishes and bringing them happiness.

Today we goldies got together not only for the monthly reading but also for celebrating Kate’s birthday. Kate wanted to keep a low profile, still Lydia reminded everyone of us of the special day and volunteered to buy a birthday cake. So exciting that we had two aims in one gathering. Like always we changed the date several times before concluding it. Finally Kate, Lydia and Michelle cancelled their clogging class to make it happen and for more goldies to join. No other day was perfect as Kate and Lydia will go abroad for their long planned trip this weekend. We also changed restaurants several times. The one we finally walked in was decided on the spot.

Irene and Kate were already there when I stepped in. Good to see Kate was in a jolly mood. The first surprise came before I sat down. Irene bought everyone two scarves, one golden and one black, always so sweet. Next time, we shall all wear them as our dress code. Michelle, Lydia and Sherry arrived respectively.

We began with a light chat; Michelle’s trip to Hawaii, Michelle father’s health and Irene’s calendar plan. The air became hot when Lydia talked about her birthday party. We were so excited about the upcoming fun. Then Sherry dropped a bomb talking about her unusual encounter, and created an even hotter atmosphere. She is so good at becoming the center of attention.

After enough chat came camera moment. Posing, teasing and making a scene put a sensational period to our reading. Can’t wait for Lydia’s Birthday Party to come!


Trini
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2009年10月20日星期二

A Long-waiting hike of 14.2 km of distance up to the Peak of Bamboo Mountain

Climb the mountains and get their good tidings. Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storms their energy, while cares will drop off like autumn leaves. ~John Muir


Embracing mountains and embracing nature is my cup of tea, and hiking with friends always excites me. Today over 150 people joined the hike! The biggest group I have ever joined.

The hike to the Radar Tower on Bamboo Mountain was first announced on Aug. 18th. I waited for the day to come for exact two months. My excitement is indescribable when it finally came. Eight months passed since my last hike. The Radar Tower belongs to the military, and normally it’s guarded and exclusive for the military. Today they made an exclusive exception for YMSNP volunteers and opened the gate for them to hike there to enjoy the breathtaking scenery and the awesome view around the mountain because it’s the 2nd highest peak of YMS. Thanks to Virginia and Sherry who are YMSNP volunteers, we Toastmasters got the privilege of joining them. .

When the day was around the corner, reminders from Virginia and Sherry kept rolling in:

1. Car pool arrangement.
2. Be punctual!
3. Be aware of the distance challenge, it’s 14.2 km!
4. Get necessary gear ready.
5. Weather warning, warm clothes and raincoat are a must.
6. No photos taking. It’s a military base!
Etc.

Wow! They are really nervous being responsible for the safety of 150 people. Everything went very well as planned. I arrived at the gathering place before the schedule. After Sherry joined me, we took a few photos to record the moment. Then we headed for the mountain in order to get a good parking place.

I did get an excellent parking place. Being the very early birds, we waited for others to come. An hour passed, the place was getteing more and more crowded, the atmosphere was getting warmer and warmer and we were getting more and more excited. Toastmasters belonged to group two. We set off first after all the members arrived.
I kept staying in the first few ones during the whole trip. My naughty and competitive genes were so compelling that I couldn’t help but act and walk fast. I wanted to prove to myself that 14.2 km is nothing. I was so inconsiderate of others, but just couldn’t resist the urge of enjoying the moment and have fun.
Gradually and unconsciously we first four left all others behind. When I told Moses proudly that we may be the first to arrive the tower, four hikers of another group passed through us. Giving our accomplishment up? Moses was kind enough to play along. We over-passed them and made it the first to the tower.

Then we waited for lunch for almost two hours! The military crew didn’t expect that we finished it so fast, either, and tried to help us kill the extra two hours. I was so impressed. We, kind of intruders that disturbed their routine, were received such a warm welcome.

After lunch and some more group photos, we hit the road. Moses strode even faster than he did in the morning. To prove I was not a lamb duck, I kept the same pace and left our group far behind. When we reached the destination, we could do nothing but wait. Sherry showed up one hour later after other hikers left one by one. Next time, I should consider to follow other’s pace. I am used to walk fast, but waiting is not fun.

In the end, must thank Virginia, Sherry and all YMSNP volunteers to make this hiking possible. The distance was perfect for me to enjoy a good exercise, the sky was clear, the air was clean, the mountains were alluring, the view was broad, and the people were warm and passionate. I am a mountain person, hope there will be more hikes for me to join. What a perfect Sunday!

Trini http://picasaweb.google.com/taipeitmtrini/ALongWaitingHikeOf142KmOfDistance#
Virginia http://picasaweb.google.com.tw/vlee1009/091018#
Yi Hsin http://www.flickr.com/photos/flying_hsin/sets/72157622493176115/
Sherry http://photo.xuite.net/ymsblog/3567971
Trini
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2009年9月27日星期日

The Goldies' Bond - EQ











"Emotional Intelligence is essential to interpersonal and intrapersonal relationships at school, at home, and at work." - McCown et al

Six beauties gathered for Sept. reading, and five made the 1st 2nd round, light chatting, possible. Our Sept. gathering ended at midnight, a new tryout and another new record.

It’s been over a month since our last reading gathering. I was truly thankful to all my beauties for their sweet understanding to move our reading from the afternoon to the evening. My forgetful and careless mind caused the turmoil at the last min. Gina & Kate, the coordinators of this month’s reading, found a very artistic place Xue Xue Institute 學學文創志業 for us. Our reading took place on the 2nd floor Bite after Bite Restaurantㄧ口一口學食堂. We and some other few girls were the only customers there to enjoy the whole spacious, artistic place.

I was surprised to see the area was extremely quiet and empty. All the parking places along the street were unoccupied. My tiny vulnerable blue car was like the only orphan deserted there. The huge transparent glass wall and doors made me wonder, “Is the place for business or for tour?”

Later my lady friends told me the Institute is not business-oriented. I was happy to see Gina, Kate, Irene, Linda and Michelle were all there already sitting in a nice quiet corner. Actually the whole restaurant was quiet. The 2nd surprise was to see the beautiful scarves Linda brought for every one of us. They were from her talented daughter’s product line. After the warm-up chat, and light food, we proceeded with our reading.

Unanimously, all beauties tonight gave the article “Emotional Intelligence” by Sushma Subramanian, more afterthoughts. Apparently, we all agreed that EQ is a very important asset to everyone. To me EQ and IQ are reciprocal. A person with both always radiates charm and charisma toward people.

We took goldies into analysis to see who fits passive, passive aggressive, assertive or aggressive communicator, the four criteria of communicators mentioned in the article. I think none of us are passive ones taking the active interaction among us into consideration.

A few sentences or statements I like are:
- There’s a different way to be smart than what’s on an intelligence test. It’s not a new concept. It’s a new term. - Roberson.
- It becomes more of a dance between the audience and speaker, and it leads to a much more powerful talk. - Steve Mitten.
- Emotional Intelligence (EIQ) is a crucial element of public speaking.
- The four pillars of emotional intelligence: self-awareness, self-management of behaviors, social awareness and relationship management. – Goleman.
- Intelligence can contribute to success just as much as – if not more than –intellectual aptitude.

We kind of skipped the article “Speaking for the Animals” and moved on to “Nelson Mandela”. Mandela; the son of a tribal chief, a rebel impatient with restrictions as a boy, imprisoned for 27 years, started his speaking tour in 1990 after being released from the jail, is an expert on Adapting a speech to an Audience without changing his message.

After the reading came the shooting moment. Michelle just bought a new fancy, shocking pink advanced camera. We were intrigued and excited to try this camera out and posed by turns for fun. Happiness is contagious, the camera also had its moment.

To go with Irene’s idea of a crazy night, five of us went for a 2nd round after the restaurant wass about to close at 9:00 pm. Linda had to go home to fulfill her wife, daughter-in-law and mother, 3-in-one's role. We tried to look for the pub Michelle recalled, and were disappointed to find it closed for good a month ago. What a nuisance just when five devoted homemakers geared up the spirit to enjoy life more. So we settled for a coffee Shop, Seattle Coffee, serving better coffee than Starbucks for more chat. Except coffee, we got a big plate of pancakes on the house. It excited us. We were so easy to get contented and excited! Time flew fast. After covering a few topics, it was midnight, time for the store to close and time for us to head home.

We set the date and place for our Oct. reading, then called it a day. Tomorrow we shall all get back to our routine lives. The break just makes our reading gathering worth waiting.

Trini
0927

Light Food and Light Talk Just Two of Us



It was a luck by chance, Pamela and I got together on Satuday afternoon to enjoy some gourmet food at 水舞饌, a place I didn't know until being recommended by Pamela.

After starving a whole day to have the health check, I needed a good meal to reward myself, and if possible a good company, too. Pamela was sweet to accompany me and suggested a good place to serve the purpose.

I enjoyed the atmosphere, the delicacies the restaurant served, and a pleasant chat with Pamela. She has been always a great company. What a Pity that I didn't bring my camera to record the moment.

Both Pamela and I said we must make it possible to have goldies' reading gathering here someday in the near future.

Trini
0830

A Voice Tested Aug. Reading


It was the first time I saw a shop without a shop sign especially when it’s inside a building.

Michelle chose the Mr. Brown Coffee on ChienKuo N. Rd. for our Sept. Reading. I studied The map she mailed us to know the location of the coffee shop. Yet after I made two circles, I still saw no sign of Mr. Brown Coffee. I called Michelle to make sure, then Pamela’s call asking me the direction reassured me the shop is there, so I parked my car and walked in the building. There it was, strong soothing coffee smell and rows of desks and chairs, just no shop sign.

Sherry and Marian were already there. How nice to see Marian who came to join us despite the fact that she had a T/Ms meeting later at 7:00 pm. Sherry was always the first that arrives to enjoy her favorite aroma of coffee and the quiet atmosphere of coffee shops. After Pamela walked in, Sherry led us outside to take some pictures as the fountains in front the building give the building a touch of uniqueness. The water was cool, and the spray of the fountain felt so good to our feet. We played with the water like little girls. It’s Sherry, too, who always comes up with some unexpected and creative ideas to make our reading more fun and indescribably exciting.

After we were about finishing the photo taking, Linda , Lydia, Kate and Gina arrived respectively. We moved to the back bigger desk that sits also in a far quiet corner. We took a while to have our food ordered finally, too long that Marian had to leave taking the meal with her. Hope next time, she can truly enjoy the benefit of sharing and discussion with us.

After enjoying our food and grabbing some bites from others, our reading began. There was still no sign of Michelle, apparently she was caught at work and couldn’t get out of her office. We began with the article “Effective Solutions for Team Conflict. Sherry shared with us her comments first followed by some others. Before we could proceed with the 2nd one, we had to stop as it was time to leave for the 2nd program of voice testing. Lydia, Kate and Sherry are working on a T/Ms choir, and invited some T/Ms to come for the voice testing. I didn’t realize before, but was happy to go along to see how it proceeded.

It was only a few min. walk to the testing room. I didn’t expect to see so many heavy weight T/Ms came to show their interest in singing in a choir. Jorge Yen, Jorie Wu, Eric Suen, Ron Chen, etc. Michelle made it to the voice test. How interesting to see so many experienced T/Ms try out their voice like school students in front of the teacher. I was not a choir person, and was surprised to see they are loved the idea. An hour passed in a blink of an eye after short discussion of details.

I couldn’t make any promise, need to see my situation and cultivate my interest. I must salute to Sherry for her passion and enthusiasm in making everything possible. A T/Ms Choir! What a passion! What a big responsibility! Only Sherry can make it happen.

In two months or three, everyone will see the magnificent T/Ms Choir performing before the audience with their voice from heaven.

Trini
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2009年8月24日星期一

A Trip of Art, Culture and Religion from Rome to Milan



When it was impossible for my children to travel with me, how I wished any of my lady friends could join me for the Italy trip. Well, nobody could afford the vacation except me. So I accepted the fact that I had to travel alone again. This small disappointment didn’t diminish my spirit at all, in stead I looked positively at the bright side and believe I would learn how to adjust myself to the upcoming adventure. Helen Keller said, "Life is either a daring adventure or nothing." I did always enjoy my life more when embracing adventures. It took me days to decide what to bring and finally had my luggage packed right before I left home for the Airport.

To save money I always take bus to the Airport. Unexpectedly when I arrived at the station,a taxi driver approached me eagerly to offer an extremely reasonable price to the Airport as he had to go to the Airport to pick up a customer with or without passengers riding along. At first I hesitated a while for safety sake. You know the result. I arrived at the Airport much earlier than I planned. Not bad, indeed.

When I found our guide, I saw all young people around her. Most of them even look like students. Well people tend to look young nowadays, I thought. Still felt a little bit awkward being the oldest one. I was much relieved later when seeing two more couples joining in. They were definitely about my age, or maybe older? Before boarding the plane, I even got the chance to use the Airport computer to write a long mail to my friend. I hadn’t talked to the tour members.
“What’s the hurry? The trip hasn’t started yet,” I said to myself. The fact is that I am shy and introvert deep down not like when I am with my lady friends at all. After we arrived in Rome and went to have our first meal, I knew it was time to get to know my tour members. I did alright I learned that we are thirty people in total including 8 couples; two brought their children with, two probably just got married, two old couples, two advanced their honeymoon according to our guide; two college students, two working girls, two bankers. They all came with their friends or family. What I didn’t expect was that there are ten teachers. It surprised me yet was quite understandable as summer vacation is the only available time for teachers to travel.

The whole trip in Italy was done by bus and on foot. We walked a lot and when we arrived at the hotel, we were quite exhausted, yet still looked pretty OK. Pretty healthy people we were. The three small children just graduated from the elementary school had huge crush on me. One even tailed me wherever I went for the last five days and practically became my camera boy. Very interesting! Everyone was nice and friendly to be with chatting and helping me take photos. Of course I also volunteered to help them take photos when seeing the need in return. The whole trip was sensational. No modern buildings in the places we went, so full of cultural, religious and artistic features. Now I realize how Italy can get by without much industry. Tourism is the most important industry they have. Tourists were all over the places we went even on week days. Hardly saw Italians except the shop keepers. Also according to our guide, most Italian went on vacation, too. Of course they went to other countries or some resorts.

I was amazed by the big number of churches, houses and buildings in unity and how well the cities were preserved with old stone houses
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The whole trip was exciting. I had a very fulfilling nine days excluding the long tiring hours on the plane. Let me minute it following our itinerary. The places we visited were:

Rome: We spent two whole days to see all the churches and religious spots covered by the book "Angels and Demons" like St Peter's Church including the Sistine chapel, Vantican Museum, Piazza San Pietro, Piazza Navona, Sanda Maria della Vittoria, Maria del Popolo, Castello de Sant Angelo, Colosseum, Pantheon, Fontana di Trevi, Piazza Venezia, Spanish steps,聖三一教堂(Trinita dei Monti), etc. So many churches, sculptures, art works, monuments and relics. Vantican is the smallest country in the world with total area 0.44 Km2 only.

Siena in Toscana: After two exhausting days in Rome, we got to sleep in a little bit. It's almost noon time when we arrived. Spent one whole day strolling in the small city seeing churches, shops, Piazza del Campo and costumes of old time nobles. There was a special festival on that day and men in costumes were supposed to perform the fighting with each other. Pity that we had to leave by 5:30 pm, and had to miss it.

Florence: More sculptures and churches, the biggest Santa Maria del Fiore, also the famous Statue "David" are in the plaza and the museum. The genuine Statue David is in the Gallery of UFFIZI 烏菲茲美術管. I climbed all the way up to the top of the church and looked around all the churches in the city. More introduction of the structure of the churches, bridges and buildings was given. There is a street full of shops that sell jewelry in gold, platinum and K gold interesting but too expensive comparing with the jewelry in Taiwan. We also saw the house of the famous poet Dante Alighieri 但丁.

Pisa Tower: The tower is much smaller than I thought. And its shape is no longer natural and beautiful according to our guide. What a pity! Being disappointed that we couldn’t get up there, we took a lot of photos around the tower. Another special feature was that there were a lot of African venders there selling faked bags and handicrafts.

Venice: Took boat three times to see the islands and alleys of the famous and beautiful city of water. There are 150 channels and over 400 bridges. We also visited the crystal factory. Many show rooms exhibit beautiful chandelier, mirrors, tea sets, vases, and decorations that seem so delicate and exquisite, yet truly artistic. Some of our members spent quite some money there. Luckily I didn't lose my sense as this trip already robbed me up. This is the place we had truly scrumptious spaghetti, too. I like the city very much and wish I could spend a few more days there having a boat of my own to immerse myself in the cool, classic, exortic and slow-paced city.

Verona: the place of the famous tear jerky story "Romeo and Juliet" took place. We saw Romeo (we were told it is made believe) and Juliet’s home. The beautiful bronze statue of Juliet attracted every tourist to take picture with her. People were encouraged to touch its breast. Most men did, but not women.

Sirmione: See the beautiful lake Lago di Garda and the Scaligar Castle. I didn't go in because already spent a lot on the tickets during the 1st few days, just spent the whole time walking on the streets, the shore, and eating fruit and ice cream. Quite a small beautiful city and resort for Italians.

Milan: The last stop. After seeing so many churches and sculptures, became less crazy about going up to the top of the tower to save 9 Euro. With limited short time, I managed to take a good look of the church inside and work the streets around it. Most tour members aimed at shopping at the Galleria Vittorio Emanuele 艾曼紐迴廊.

The Hotels we stayed in were quite nice, too, providing good breakfast. The only downside was the high exchange rate of Euro which makes everything so expensive. Just post cards, snacks and souvenirs cost me a fortune. Susan Heller said, ‘"When preparing to travel, lay out all your clothes and all your money. Then take half the clothes and twice the money." How true it is!
How I wished I had more money to spend so that I could have had a complete worry-free trip in Italy.
Trini
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My Solo Trip



This is the first solo trip I made. It turned our surprisingly interesting! Simply put:

1. I shared a room with our guide who at out every night and came back late, yet seldom ate during meal time. The best advantage was that she was quick in using the bathroom and it was like exclusive for me.
2. I got lost for almost two hours which worried our group a lot and made our guides and two team members to look for me. I was a good experience though, I happened have the hotel card with me. Never, never forget to bring the tel. number of the hotel and the tour guides!
3. I became the target to make fun of due to the incident and had to drink beer with all the male members every meal to express my apology.
4. The two tem members who tried to search for me became my body guards and camera men. Some other team members kept teasing us as Three’s company. I tried not to look offended, still joked back at the key moment to clarify my stand and position.
5. The youngest lovely girl, seven years old only, liked to show off her English to me after being told that I’m an English teacher.
6. I spend a fortune again buying souvenirs and silk bed sets. Just couldn’t resist the temptation to get them for my children for their future weddings
7. The food and hotels were satisfactory, too. I gained two kg. During the whole trip.

Traveling alone can be fun, too. I am no longer afraid of going alone as long as I am with a tour. I got to know more people and learned to open myself up more to people.

Trini
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